There’s probably some other important things to look for in a lady (like integrity and if you can both speak a common language), but here’s my list of top three qualities:
Attraction. Like Emma Stone and Spiderman, I want us to be a couple who is drawn to each other: both physically and personality–wise. I’m gonna have to find her interesting, compelling, and cute, and she’s gonna have to do the same for me! …Aren’t they just perfect for each other?
Fun. We need to enjoy being silly around each other and laughing together. I’m talking tickle fights, burping contests, and talking in accents together (just to name a few examples). Life and relationships are both better with an extra scoop of LOLs on top.
Challenging. Ok, now try to get that dancing image out of your head, because here comes the serious part. We need to be people who constantly challenge and inspire each other. We need to both be willing to confront each other and initiate hard conversations together. Facing challenges is the only way to grow both as an individual and as a couple.
And that’s it! You can go on back to watching them dance.
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